Do you remember the last time you broke up with someone that you still really loved? Let me refresh your memory:
- You feel very, very sad, and cry in the car a lot.
- They really are wonderful, you just aren't right for each other.
- You wonder if you can still be friends.
- People don't understand that even though it needed to happen, it's still very, very sad.
- You wonder if your mutual friends will stop talking to you.
- They're still an old love, and you may always have a sense of "what might have been."
- You're worried about hurting them, worried about what they'll think-- because they mean so much to you that their opinion matters.
- You think about giving back your key to their place, and can't stop crying.
- You still sincerely want the best for them.
- You spend a lot of time trying to figure out how you could make it work.
- You miss them for a really, really long time. You know that, even though it wasn't meant to be, there are things about them that no one else is ever going to replace.
Well, I just wanted to let you know that it works about the same way with an institution.
God's Paintbrush
15 hours ago
I left a church a few years back. I agree.
ReplyDeleteyour courage and vulnerability are beautiful....
ReplyDeleteprayers ascending for you -grief is hard, but at least it's real :)
ReplyDeleteGeez.
ReplyDeleteYou are SO absolutely right.
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Deb